Sacrifices

   Today is National Coming Out Day - so if you've chosen today to come out, congratulations. However, if you should decide to come out any other day that's just as wonderful. You won't get the embroidered T-shirt though.
   I went to a hate crimes candle light vigil this evening (sponsored by the non-profit that I work with). It was to remember victims of hate crimes, especially Matthew Shepard whose death was 7 years ago tomorrow. I think it reminded us that we need to recognize the sacrifices of those who have come before us, that we still have a long way to go, and that we should honor those lost by reaching towards a hate-free society.
   One man also spoke of hate crimes that are perpetuated by LGBT folks. I thought his point was interesting. It was that although society supplies the "hate" part of it, sometimes we provide the crime ourselves. In his case, a friend of his was rejected by his parents and shot himself. Other times people turn to alcohol and drugs to deal with an intolerant society. I think it's important that while we concentrate on dealing with external hate crimes, we should be aware that we all need to take care of each other.

(further reading: A note from Judy Shepard; LGBT student poll: 9 in 10 harassed)